lycans wrote:
I am a very vindictive person who bear grudges. Forgiveness from me is like squeezing water out of a rock.... I wonder how can I change my nature for the better?
I know what you mean. I was once liked you. Do you agree that not to forgive others is not a kind of good feeling? Till now, I've no idea that I've really learnt to forgive or I wish to let myself feel better. Whichever it is, I'm a happier person now.
Just like the quote below, it means to be magnanimous is not because one wishes to forgive others but to let oneself feels better. Perhaps can start from making ourselves feel better and slowly may be we will have "a heart big enough to hold no grudges".
Just like the quote below, it means to be magnanimous is not because one wishes to forgive others but to let oneself feels better. Perhaps can start from making ourselves feel better and slowly may be we will have "a heart big enough to hold no grudges".
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